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Tuesday, May 24, 2005

Sacred Cows

Over Hanabi's riduculously filling Japanese buffet we talked.
What happens when you achieve all your sacred cows?


But first - What IS a Sacred Cow? Not to be confused with its close and easily frightened bovine cousin (Scared Cow), a Sacred Cow is the one thing that drives you in life. The one thing that you treasure above all else. The one thing that gives you purpose. The one thing that keeps you going no matter what. Common cows include building a fabulous career, getting obscenely wealthy, finding your one true love, etc.

So. What happens when you've amassed a whole herd of said cattle? Where does that leave you?
He said, "You lose your passion for life. What else is there to look forward to? You got everything you wanted already, you get bored."
I said, "You feel like you're just existing, but not really LIVING."
She said, "That's why when I lost MY Sacred Cow (meaning BF), I fell apart."

We wondered - Could it be better not to expect too many things in life, to perhaps not have any Sacred Cows at all?
But if there are no ambitions, desires, goals in life, where does it leave you then?
Is it possible to want things out of life without turning them into Sacred Cows (if you've achieved them or lost them you lose the zest for living)?

I admitted I don't think I have any Sacred Cows - unless you take the religious motif seriously, then yes, God is my Sacred Cow. But that's a discussion for another day. Far Away.

So no cows in my life (except the ones I routinely devour). For example, if you wanna talk about career as Sacred Cow, when I was little if you asked me, "What do you want to be when you grow up?", I always answered, "I don't know."
I honestly had no clue. I still don't. And until I actually grow up, I don't think I have an answer.

As we pondered this topic ponderously, the other He said thoughtfully, chewing on his prawn tempura, "When I grow up, I want to be a Golden Retriever."

Haha. Woof.

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